I have been chatting online for a few days now and it's a lot more fun than I thought it would be. But more than anything, I can't believe how much WORK it is! Maybe I just need to start being a bitch and deleting people for little things, but looking at profiles and photos takes time and energy. As my friend told me once, she'd tell herself she'd spend an hour online, and the next thing she knew, it was hours later. To make it worse, I have the app on my phone, so I can get lost in the land of lust at anytime, its just a arms reach away.
I have come to one very important conclusion about these profiles - guys SUCK at posting photos! Can I find just one guy that has a half way decent photo? I'm sorry, but if I see one of you that you've taken in the bathroom and I can the sink and all your crap on the counter, you are automatically OUT!! And what is with pictures posted with other girls? Isn't the point of the site to find a new one? I can usually tell if you are standing with you mom (bonus points for that), but it'd be smart to have a caption that tells me that you're with your sister, cousin or lesbian best friend. The fun part so far, really is coming up with nicknames for these guys - I'll share some as I go along cause some of them, are just damn funny!
For being a rookie, I am pretty happy with my profile. I had thought about changing it, but since I am getting some bites, excuse the pun, maybe I will just leave it alone for now.
Being the nice person that I am (shut up to my friends reading this), I do at least read every message I get and I give them the respect of checking out their profile, even if they may not be someone I would message. I don't respond to all, but I have started up conversations with those that share my interests, or in some cases, are just DAMN HOT! Deleting people without conversing sounds somewhat mean, but at the end of the day, I just don't have time to tell all of them that they aren't what I am looking for....isn't that what my profile is for??? (it's not read by everyone before they message you - shocking, I know)
So with all this chatting, I guess maybe I should go out and start meeting some.....
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